Marijo Phelps

Prayer for a Spouse Devotional



Posted: Wednesday, September 30, 2009

by Marijo Phelps

Lord Jesus, please help us to cherish each other with Your kind of love to respect and delight in and honor each other. Let us put an end to the "digs" and unkindnesses.

Help us to build up and not destroy. Unify us in "one flesh" with Your Spirit, Lord God. Help us, I pray!

Help my heart to repent. I don't want to be selfish, proud or reacting in a nasty, defensive way. I want to get rid of "high places" and totally yield to You in ALL areas of my life.

Father, please, at all times help us both to remember we are on the same team and it is only the enemy who would have us convinced otherwise. AMEN

1 Peter 3:7

Husbands, in the same way be considerate as you live with your wives, and treat them with respect as the weaker partner and as heirs with you of the gracious gift of life, so that nothing will hinder your prayers. (NIV)

Ephesians 5:25

Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her (NIV)

Philippians 2:3-4

Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit, but in humility consider others better than yourselves. Each of you should look not only to your own interests, but also to the interests of others. (NIV)

Matthew 19:5

and said, 'For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh' ? (NIV)

Mark 10:8

and the two will become one flesh.' So they are no longer two, but one. (NIV)

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Marijo Phelps,saved by Jesus grace in 1974, from 9 years atheism into His loving arms. She is wanting to spread the good news about His redemptive plan for our lives through written media. Her name is pronounced Mary Jo. She was an RN for 23+ years, missionary with YWAM,statistical analyst for Every Home for Christ 9 years. Her first poem published when she was four years old. (her mom had much to do with that!) She has been writing ever since.

Her new blog can be found: http://myincrediblelord.blogspot.com

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Top-level comments on this article: (10 total)
» left by Lorrie Davids
2 years 234 days ago.
96 fans.
Hi Marijo. Good stuff here. I was not surprised to see Phil 2:3 here and would add verse 4 to it: "Each of you should look not only to your own interests, but also to the interests of others." In place of the word 'interests' my pastor recently suggested inserting any word, finances, health, fun, well-being, etc. Thanks for sharing your heart.
» left by Marijo Phelps 2 years 234 days ago.
143 fans.
Good idea - will hop to it right now! Thanks and always appreciate critiques or suggestions, Lorrie! Marijo
» left by Lorrie Davids
2 years 234 days ago.
96 fans.
Still good when it comes up on Readers' Club! I like the change you made. That has become one of my favorite passages of scripture and one I unfortunately struggle with.
» left by Marijo Phelps from mountain meadow CO 2 years 234 days ago.
Yah, especially when the interest of others runs contraty to our interests - I hear you! Thanks for doing "double duty" here.Marijo
» left by Nenita Wells
2 years 234 days ago.
298 fans.
Hi Marijo.
 
Thank you for writing this inspirational article/prayer. You wrote it with passion.
 
God bless and good health.
 
Nenita
» left by Marijo Phelps from mountain meadow CO 2 years 234 days ago.
It is older material but we have had our moments - right now we are growing together and, after 24 years growing up too I hope! Thanks for reading and commenting, Nenita! Marijo
» left by Ken McCreless
2 years 234 days ago.
84 fans. Follow Ken McCreless on twitter!
Beautiful, MariJo, simply beautiful.
 
Great job!
» left by Marijo Phelps 2 years 233 days ago.
143 fans.
HE is able and teaching us all the time I hope! Thanks, Ken, Marijo
» left by Joel Hendon
2 years 233 days ago.
127 fans.
An excellent devoional Marijo. Thank you for writing it and sharing with us.
» left by Marijo Phelps 2 years 230 days ago.
143 fans.
Thanks for reading and commenting Joel!
» left by Nancy Daniels
2 years 231 days ago.
68 fans.
Marijo,
 
What a great recipe for marriage and for life! Thank you for these uplifting words. By the way, I am glad to know how your name is pronounced. It is easier for me to write it now.
» left by Marijo Phelps 2 years 230 days ago.
143 fans.
Appreciate your comments, Nancy - Thanks! Marijo
» left by Bonnie Tilly
2 years 231 days ago.
8 fans.
Hi Marijo:
What a wonderful reminder!  Your words are food for thought.
Blessings,
Bonnie Tilly   
» left by Marijo Phelps 2 years 230 days ago.
143 fans.
Good thing He made us able to learn and grow! Thanks for commenting, Tilly! Marijo
» left by Bonnie Tilly from Escondido, CA 2 years 230 days ago.
You're so right! And, please feel free to call me by my first name.
» left by Marijo Phelps from mountain meadow CO 2 years 229 days ago.
I am SO sorry - I, above many, should get the names straight with one spelled like mine is! (I worked with a wonderful RN named Tilly and think I was flashing back to her!) Please forgive me?! Marijo
» left by Ken McCreless
from Event Horizon
2 years 230 days ago.
Readers Club, this time, MariJo. Thanks for sharing your gift!
» left by Marijo Phelps 2 years 230 days ago.
143 fans.
Wow - a double blessing from you, Ken! Thanks,
 
Marijo
» left by Sandra E. Graham
2 years 230 days ago.
247 fans.
The Bible says, 'you will be judged by your works' and your works of spreading the wonderful news of God and His goodness and Jesus and His great love for man; should win you your own crown one day. God Bless and may He live in your heart forever.
 
Sandra
» left by Anonymous 2 years 230 days ago.
Well.... thanks for your kind words, Sandra, I just returned from a wonderful 3 day ladies retreat - The Lord was there, big time. the ladies were open and transparent and CHANGED.... He is knocking on so many doors - praying that many will hear Him and answer their door and ASK...HE is more than willing to forgive those for whom He died! We have received the BEST gift in eternity - how can we help but share that news and challenge others to think and decide?! Blessings! Marijo
» left by Edward Rhymes
2 years 229 days ago.
67 fans.
Thanks Marijo. Writings like this make me even more thankful for a loving and praying wife! Thanks again.
» left by Marijo Phelps 2 years 229 days ago.
143 fans.
I wrote this some years ago and was pleased to see that the Lord isn't done with us yet and we are both growing in Him! Marijo
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